What is Grief?
Normal Feelings after a death
Anticipated Grief
What Are Grief Bursts?
Bereavement Support Events or Support Groups
Informational Mailing
Bereavement Services are provided for up to 13 months after a death of a loved one. These services are provided free of charge and open to the public. Support is available to all who have lost a loved one, regardless of whether the loved one was in hospice care.
Hospice of Washington County is here to assist our community member’s move through the grief process by providing support, education and resources. Our Bereavement staff offer educational programs, monthly mailings, supportive counseling through one-on-one meetings, home visits and regularly scheduled support groups.
The journey of grieving is very personal. Some individuals are only comfortable with one-on-one visits, while others prefer interacting in a group setting.
What is Grief?
Grief is a normal, natural and necessary process connected with any loss. Grief is the multitude of emotions that we feel at the time of a loss. There are no time frames or correct ways to grieve. Grief may be expressed in many ways and with a variety of intensities.
Normal Feelings after a death
Grief can be so painful and seem so overwhelming that it may frighten us. Many people worry if they are grieving in the “right” way, and wonder if the feelings they have are normal. Most people who suffer a loss experience one of more of the followings signs or symptoms.
- Feeling tightness in their throat of heaviness in the chest
- Feeling an empty feeling in their stomach or loss of appetite
- Feeling guilty or angry
- Find it difficult to concentrate
- They may be restless, looking for something to do to keep busy
- They may find it hard to accept; the loss isn’t real, it didn’t happen
- They may sense the deceased presence
- They may experience forgetfulness, anxiety and depression
- Difficulty sleeping, being overly tired
- Experience an intense preoccupation with the life of the deceased
- They may have feelings of guilt or anger over things that happened or didn’t happen in the relationship with the deceased
- Need to tell and retell memories and experiences of the deceased over and over
- Mood changes over the slightest of situations or remembered memories
- Cry at unexpected times or suddenly
- They may experience more dreams or nightmares
- They may feel all alone even when surrounded by people
Anticipated Grief
Anticipated Grief can occur when it becomes clear that we are facing a loss in our life. We can exhibit normal and natural grief emotions before the loss occurs.
What Are Grief Bursts?
Grief Bursts, also called grief pangs, are heightened periods of sadness or anxiety that can overwhelm the grieving person. Sometimes, out of nowhere, a powerful surge of grief may seem to engulf you. Familiar sounds, smells or songs can trigger grief bursts, or they can seem to come out of nowhere. Allow emotions and feelings to come. Realize tears are normal, natural and appropriate expressions of pain associate with death.
Bereavement Support Events or Support Groups
- A Memorial Scrapbook group meets on select Monday afternoons from 1:00-3:30 PM at the Hospice of Washington County office. Please call office for more information or to reserve your spot.
- Compassionate Heart Luncheon held annually around Valentine’s Day.
- Memorial 5k Walk/Run held annually on the third Saturday in September.
- Community Memorial Trees displayed in the Washington Public Library from Late November until the first week of January.
- Throughout the year various structured grief support groups are offered, meeting at various times and locations during the year. Each session is between 5 - 6 weeks long.
- We also offer educational workshops and seminars for various population groups within our community as needed. Topics covered are timely, such as - parent's grief, writing about loss, coping with the holidays, skills for living healthy and more. Depending on the topic offered Continuing Education Credits may be offered.
Informational Mailing
Informational news letters are sent out monthly. These contain information on the different aspects of grief. Topics such as, how to talk with children, anger and denial, guilt, and what does "normal" mean. Included in these packets are not only great information but poems and stories of what others have experienced. Lastly, the packet contains events that are going on at Hospice of Washington County to keep you informed and involved.
Contact Jina Witthoft at Hospice of Washington County
with any questions or to make an appointment.
Phone: 319-653-7321 or 888-966-6608
Email:jina@hospicewc.com