This tool will compare hospices, nursing homes, and other providers near you. 

https://www.medicare.gov/hospicecompare 

IPOST is a double-sided, one-page document that allows a person to communicate their preferences for key life-sustaining treatments including: resuscitation, general scope of treatment, artificial nutrition and more.

https://idph.iowa.gov/ipost

Directory of hospice programs; general information; members discussion groups.

http://www.nhpco.org